It's been very very hot for the last couple of days, and it makes me L.A.Z.Y!!
Just lying around watching my fav prog on tv again and again and again. I wonder why do I never feel bored watching reruns of some of the tv shows? I knew which part of what, when will I laugh of the stupid jokes, who's doing what, those kind of things..
Maybe we just being so 'settled' of some of the things in our life. You know, it's like a routine, something familiar, so we are so comfortable of having 'those' without ever wanna think what's going to happen if the 'priviledge' of having 'those' being taken away.. Which I can't imagine!! I know it gonna be hard but isn't it part of the life? One day you have it, the next day you don't.
In fact, being 'settled' in your life isn't something good.. Yet, it can be something good though.. Well, it is just my opinion.
Not good? ... Well, when those 'settled things' being taken away from your life, you will definitely feel out of a limb. You will feel your life or anything you do wouldn't be enough, it just incomplete. You wouldn't know how or where to start or even to finish it. The solution, you might want to find a replacement of it. You going extra miles to replace it because finding a replacement never been easy. You will expect something better than the previous one, and when it's not, you never going to call it a replacement. When it can't be called a replacement, your expectation becomes higher, you tend to compare, not to compromise. And you might be thinking, "Why on earth should I settle for something less when I had the best?". Having no goals to achieve is not a preferable option. It's absolute NO. So in a way it's something good which push you to be better and to have better things in life. It's like motivator or a pusher for you to go further.
Good ones? ... When you settled for something you tend not to expect for something more. You grateful for what you have and you take thing as it is. Your life just like a stagnant water. No major changes, just a sweet soft blow of a wind on a surface. And you just happy living in plain small life. You know, like driving your first car you bought 15 years ago. You never think of having a new car nor to replace it. As long as it can move, carry you from Point A to Point B, hardly giving you any prob, you settled.
So which one am I?.. I think a little bit of both. I love to keep something I own forever, without any question of losing it yet I am not a settled type. I always want something better because as what I always tell myself "I DESERVE ALL THE BEST IN LIFE".
So tell me, how about yours?
Tuesday, June 15, 2010
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